Why we feel week when we fail

Why we feel week when we fail
When we fail to achieve our goals , we usually feel week, inadequate, and powerless, we feel like losers, I’ve noticed that after  two years ago after I failed to go to university, most of my close friends got school, but my thongs delayed and I end up not going to school, I felt devastated, angry at myself, I end up giving up what I was planning  study, it’s not like I gave up on it, I just felt that it let me down, so I told myself that I was going to  change a career, guess what!, the dreams we had and gave up on them, a pierce of us left with them, and that’s a reality, we don’t think about that when storm comes, but it is true,. I started not to care about what people think of me, and started to do things my way, it was not satisfying but it felt great, (to be continued)
What happens when we can’t take the fail or fault?
what we usually do when we fail, we give up and blame other people
for whatever that is happening to us,others end up running to drug, and letting
their lives run into grains.
what i can tell people to do is to continue with their dreams, if they fail, they must try again, and again